How could it be? At my age (close to 60) -- and after DECADES of being on BoyChat and also reading the scientific literature --- I'm still learning! My mind is still blown by the fact I JUST LEARNED , that young boys can have orgasms every bit as satisfying as a mature male.|
I was a non-orgasmic boy because I didn't masturbate until puberty, when I was able to ejaculate. I had certainly heard and read about prepubescent orgasms, but since I never experienced them I didn't quite "get" it. They couldn't possibly be as good as the mature kind, I assumed.
So I did some searching on Google to find relevant BoyChat posts from the past.
hyacinth wrote on June 1, 2011: (BTW, I miss him -- I wonder what happened)
I would not trade all those dry orgasms that are
still the delights of my childhood memories,
for anything in the world.
I still feel that most kids are missing out on some
wonderful feelings and some great experiences
by not learning about sex and masturbation
until they are in puberty. What a waste.
There was a thread on the topic on March 12, 2010.
As I recall, I was having pretty regular orgasms by about the age of eight, and by nine I think I had a quite complex and evolved fantasy life. Some of this was inspired by the fact that I had from an early age discovered my older brother's stash of girlie magazines, girlie books, girlie playing cards, etc. etc. In addition to which, I made interesting selective use of my older sister's lingerie drawer, LOL !
Boys do not of course ejaculate until puberty but they can certainly climax, and can also climax repeatedly in quick succession, which becomes more difficult to do after puberty.
I did. And with the multiple orgasms that Tootles mentioned. Without ejaculation as a natural endpoint, I'd just go on and on until I got bored. On the other hand, being able to ejaculate makes the whole thing more intense. I prefer post-pubertal orgasms over prepubertal.
Fetishist does say he prefers the mature orgasm, but that seems to be a minority view. Or, perhaps the ability to have multiple orgasms one after the other is what other guys like, and compensates for the more flashy and splashy shooting of cum.
From sexologist Thore Langfeldt's studies in Norway in the 1980's, only about 10% of prepubescent boys are orgasmic, and that's in a fairly sex-positive Scandinavian nation. Langfeldt goes on to state that the ability to orgasm needs to be learned and practiced in the prepubescent, and doesn't just "come naturally" except to the few precocious young boys who don't have the stifling guilt and inhibitions that most of us had as boys.
So, and this is the real and very controversial point I am making, do kids need to be sexually liberated? Do kids have a natural human "right" to experience the pleasure of orgasm? And if so, who will give them that right? Who will educate them?